too much love will kill you??

even being at home with an internet connection doesn't guarantee that i'll update this blog everyday, eventhough i'm using the internet almost everyday. nothing much going on during this holiday. i spent most of the time at home doing what i do best, eating and sleeping. i'm outside the house only when nececities occurs such as going to the supermarket to buy light bulb, or sometimes santan etc. nothing that involves spending my precious time chilling out with friends.

i've read syikin's blog about the love thing, and i couldn't agree more, but the way i see it, it makes love looks like nothing more than a heartbreaks and more heartbreaks. of course lah we should be rational and prepare for the worse, but that doesn't apply only to our love life, isn't it? lets expand the situation and relate it inside our life. everything in our life wouldn't be the way it always be for the rest of our life. things change and even decease, and we live our life every second not knowing what would happend next. so that's why people would say that by putting too much hope or love for someone or something will make you suffer in the end, the higher we climb, the harder the fall would be. but that doesn't apply to every situation isn't it? like i said, we didn't know what the future holds. so by doing something or loving something whole heartedly with the awareness that things could and would go bad, which is sometimes out of our control, could provide a safety net so that the fall wouldn't be that hard, and the process to rebuilt our strength wouldn't take that long. but of course the advice not to do or love things whole heartedly are applicable for those who wanted to play safe. even my mom used to advice me not to depend 100% on someone. yeah, experience is the best teacher. so just live your life the way you wanted it to be, and be prepared. life doesn't meant to be easy.

too much love will kill you, in fact, too much of anything will kill you as well.